Ever Felt Un-sexy?

I just did. And coming from someone who's been comfortable with being slim all my life, that's scary. I don't know. I guess it's because nobody's been making me feel like I am the most desirable woman on earth lately. Hubby's the only one who can make me feel that, and although we talk from time to time, there's been no mention of US in our conversations. Just Svet, Svet, Svet. Not that I mind. I love talking about our child with him, updating him of her latest delightful antics.

So there I was, feeling like an old, undesirable hag and I just have to tell you, it is not the most pleasant feeling in the world. I HAD to do something about it. With the computer as my ally, I surfed for sometime, looking for articles to, you know, boost my esteem a bit. After a while, I thought, why not buy myself something to MAKE me feel sexy? I think I deserved it, after all. And just in case hubby decides to come back earlier than promised. *wink*

I have been forever wanting something that looks like what Elisha Cuthbert wore in one of her sexy pictures posted online, something see-through but leaves something for the imagination. I of course searched for discounted lingerie, being the cheapskate that I am. Tee hee. I was unsure if I could find something that I liked at a cheap price, when I landed at Sexy Depot and found this perfect tunic style top much like that of Elisha's.

I loved it at first sight, so after checking to see if they accept Paypal, which they do, I decided to checkout the item at once. Now I am just waiting for my order to be sent to a friend to the United States, so she can send send it to me later. It was a fast and easy shopping experience, frankly, and I could not ask for more. Save for more discounted lingerie. Hee hee.

20 comments:

melanie said...

Hay Kaye,
Ever since I gave birth I felt un sexy already. Nadagdagan pa ngayon...since Im expecting. Never Mind kahit na lagi ako inaasar ng asawa...I know deep down he loves me a lot no matter how chubby I am. hehehe

MommaWannabe said...

I do get those moments too when I feel not so sexy at all and lingerie truly helps in that problem;)


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Toni Nakama said...

I used to feel this way when I was depressed, but not anymore. I pamper myself too once in a while by purchasing sexy tops (like tube tops) and short shorts hihi! Or by going to my hairdresser once in a blue moon (it costs me a lot!) Being sexy and beautiful however starts within us. Positive thinking also helps a lot in boosting our confidence or self-esteem.

redamethyst said...

sexiness starts in our mind. pero lagi ko rin nafefeel yan, pero kahit anong mangyari, para sa mga husband natin tayo ang pinakasexy. hehe

zoan said...

whew... pwede paki post yung pic mo dito suot yung lingerie? loko lang.. kasi i never had lingeries.. ahahah

zoan said...

ako i felt sexy nung nagbuntis ako :D mas sexy ata ako noon.. kaysa nung hindi pa ako nabuntis

Genejosh said...

what a sexy choice you have marce..the link led me to the fishnet long sleeve tunic style top w/c can be worn in and out of the bedroom for nighttime play....

Genejosh said...

do you feel unsexy marce..latest GT post mo marce shows that you're absolutely sexy!

Genejosh said...

it's nice to dress up and feel sexy after giving birth..i'm still working on it:)

Genejosh said...

ako marce I have episodes where I do feel like a fat cow, but I have to remember that I brought a beautiful baby into this world and my hubby does remember that as well:)

Genejosh said...

It's so, so hard when you can live in sweats and go days without any adult interaction to take care of yourself....he..he...

Genejosh said...

i need to look for new set of lingerie (that will cover my most problematic area tummy...LOL!)maybe that will help me feel downright sexy :)

Genejosh said...

One thing I have noticed is when you have confidence in yourself or feel good about yourself others start to see you in the same way...i should start feel sexy to make other look at me as sexy?..LOL!

Sherry said...

I think with my body now even sexy lingerie will not help.

Sherry said...

I am having extra fat here and there..

Sherry said...

I thought of using sexy lingerie to surprise my dear but I see him complain before that I am fat.

Sherry said...

its heart breaking he even point out where fat!!

Sherry said...

point here there :( I often sit alot

Sherry said...

dear told me that I am super fat now

Sherry said...

I am most of time feel that way